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Whereas this may seem like "ancient history", I am certain that all of us have experienced, at one time or another, the bonding that takes place in a group when we are all united against an authority figure who may hold elements of our fate in their hands. Indeed, there are many, many managers who, either consciously or unconsciously, adopt the leadership style of Quintus Arrius.  There are coaches in sports who count on it.  Strength and power flows from hatred, just as Quintus Arrius notes.  Some leaders feel that so long as the team is performing, what does it matter that they do so while hating the leadership?  Hatred, therefore, to build on our discussion in Chapter one, is an effective bonding mechanism.  It is a unifying force.  It will work in the short term almost every time.  As we go on, however, and talk about energy, we will see how destructive hatred can be over time, both to the led and to the leader.

 

Indeed, hatred is a powerful and effective bonding mechanism for "terrorist" forces around the globe.  Hatred of Western cultural and military power is a wonderful recruiting tool for extremists of every stripe.  But hatred, for all of its power, is not in the toolbox of the inspirational leader.  Nor is the style of the Roman Consul the coaching to which we refer.  Quintus Arrius and those that rely on hatred do not value those they lead.  As a result, they do not maximize the potential of the team.  Coaching is all about maximization of potential.  As we will discuss, the most powerful bonding mechanisms come from valuing people by tapping into our inherent nobility of spirit.  We will elaborate on what it means to ennoble in chapter four.

 

 
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